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bricky7264

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Post by bricky7264 » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:03 pm
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hi im single male who used to have good social life now sorting debts out i dont go out as money tight so how do i meet someone ?????
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Post by Foggy » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:26 pm
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You wait for them to meet you, Bricky :-) I met my wife (don't laugh) on the internet -- cheapest dates I have ever had :-) Been married 10 years in a couple of weeks time, so it does work. I might add that it wasn't internet dating and neither of us were looking for a mate.

Supermarket is a good place -- I was always being told off by my daughter for "talking to anyone" -- I always strike up conversations with my fellow check out queue members, male and female.

Just be outgoing, friendly and smile a lot.
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Post by bricky7264 » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:29 pm
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cheers foggy
im not shy and will talk to anyone might join interent free dating lol
well done on ten yrs all the best for next ten
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Post by wickerwish » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:31 pm
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you meet them same as us single women in ivas meet men
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Post by bricky7264 » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:34 pm
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and how is that wickerwish
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Post by Foggy » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:39 pm
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Bricky and Wickerwish
sitting in a tree:
K - I - S - S - I - N - G
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Post by MrsKnight » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:42 pm
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Every one I've dated has been through becoming friends through friends & I met my husband through work!
We worked in the same place for about 2 years, but never spoke but saw each other daily, I never really took that much notice of him as he never spoke to me & just smiled a lot! We both moved up in our careers but still crossed paths daily but he still didnt speak! I went through a difficult abbusive relationship & my colleagues that are still my friends helped pull me out. I was finally free, he secretly started to ask questions about me, let me have a few months of fun & then approached me on a staff night out, we had one every month! God I miss those days!
Been together 11 years & married 5 years x

The going out "looking" lark just doesn't work, anyone I did meet back in my going out part of my life where idiots or married! Yes I'm female but it's the same for males too.

Don't look, be open happy & comfortable In yourself n they will find u x
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Post by bricky7264 » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:45 pm
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like it foggy lol

my trouble is as i work on building site there no females to talk to so its morrisson while shopping then lol
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Post by MrsKnight » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:45 pm
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font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica">quote:<hr height="1" noshade>Originally posted by Foggy

Bricky and Wickerwish
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Foggy! [:)][:D][:)]
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Post by MrsKnight » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:48 pm
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Supermarkets are the best place! X just don't become a stalker!
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Post by bricky7264 » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:49 pm
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thanks mrs knight
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Post by wickerwish » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:54 pm
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have you got a builders bum then bricky
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Post by bricky7264 » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:58 pm
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no sorry always keep it covered up as its not pc lol
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Post by Niobe » Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:59 pm
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You'll have to join a normal dating site Bricky - we haven't quite got round to doing that on here.
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Post by bricky7264 » Fri Nov 09, 2012 8:00 pm
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we ought to start one lol
ive 5 yrs to go
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