Meash, br ain't so bad. Yes, you're name may be in the paper, only 2 people I know saw mine, and some people may find out but is it worth struggling with paying your debt for 18 years to satisfy NR and still possibly losing your home and face financial struggle???
Of course it's up to you, I really do hope that your ip can make NR see reason on this but if this fails, I would be inclined to think to myself.."sod them, I've tried my best and they shot me down, let them pick the bones from the bankruptcy!!!!"
There is only so much we can do and if certain creditos continue to make unreasonable and unrealistic demands they risk the future of IVA's and losing more of their cash.......
Good luck for today, I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you, xx
It's nice to be back......