Hi aragorn
I'll try and deal with your queries in the same order they have been raised:-
1 If your income has been cut, so should your payments, but I do not see why you have to pay for any longer. Did your IP recommend this route to you?
2 Something outside of your control that you can only react to if and when it happens.
3 The danger of interest only mortgages is that they are never repaid unless you start making additional capital repayments. So you may really only be renting your own property, although you do have the benefit if capital appreciation.
4 Sorry - I'm no expert here, but hopefully Lily will be around later to help her as she is!
If everything is getting a bit much for you, then bankruptcy may well bring the relief you are looking for, but how much equity do you currently have in your property?
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner