jane what gives you the impression that the or is trying to put an ipa on you when you have only £20 surplus, are you reading too much into this have they directly said you are getting an ipa? if it is under £100 surplus they don't bother as it cost too much, why would they make you the different from the norm?
the car is the hard part i really needed mine with 3 kids and working are you working jane or just hubby? i was told to get the bus and basically leave my 3 kids at home to fend for them selves, i haven't had it easy and BR is not an easy way out what did you expect? your debts have been written off, you have to adjust to the new way of life, you don't have picture hanging over you any more, you have new home and a fresh start why are you panicking so much?
i too have to pay my tax credits back but have been told on the other site were you post too that on discharge they will clear the tax credits, start living on what you can afford and not think of what you had in the past, budget, and learn to live again in the real world like the rest of us, you shouldn't stress so much, we have all been at the lowest ebb and have to now get on with it.
jane its the best thing start sleeping girl live a new life and make it better i have had too!
kerri
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