Hi Jane
I am not an expert but if your creditors are not liking the sound of you going into an IVA they are going to hate the BR word.
They simply do not care all they want is money, they are not going to get it because you cant pay it so you need to think about yourself and your family, you have a rental, the only way forward is to save the fees and let the OR deal with it.
In any given situation there will always be a certain amount of conflicting advise, but at the end of the day you have to cut a road through this chaos with the information that you have. I feel for you but the longer you go round in circles the more stress youre going to be under.
I hope that you will be able to put all this in the past sometime soon.
Good luck
LILY
fly me up to where you are beyong the distant star, I will wish upon tonight, to see you smile, only for a while, to know youre there, a breath away is not too far, to where you are.