pentre wrote:
Am long term sick from work, but still techncally employed. during sickeness debts have built up now approx 20,000 to five creditors. have home (160000) and own 95% equity. My ill health is likely to continue indefinatley (mental health breakdown). Can i legally enter into a 5-10 year agreement on a re-morgage in these circumstances. I do not know how long my current employer will continue to pay me. Have lost all other assets, and have dependants. How can I get out of this mess - bank has recalled all cheques and cards. am desparate failing to take medication because I cannot think straight. Please help someone!
Pentre, your medication is important. Without it you can't concentrate and make the appropriate decisions for you and your family. So, first thing is to please resume your medication. I can assume your GP is aware of your ill mental health. Have your GP make a referral to the CPNs. Have him/her do this quickly. This way you will have a psychiatric nurse, someone who will come and check on you routinely ensuring you are taking your medication. S/he may also be able to help you with your financial problems by giving you contacts.
You say your ill health is likely to continue and you don't know how long your employer will continue to pay you. Contact MIND the mental health organisation. The London headquarters telephone is:02085192122. Explain to them your situation and they will point you in the right direction in your area. I wish you well,pentre. Please take your medication or your mental health will deteriorate. You have dependents and yourself to remain healthy for.
You stated you have dependents. Can they assist you in anyway possible? Even if it's only cleaning the house, cooking, grocery shopping,taking out the rubbish, etc. It will ease some of the burden of being the provider off your shoulders.
Take care and do not enter into any legal/financial matters until you feel better within yourself and thinking clearly. Be careful about signing financial forms during this time in your life. Also, if you belong to a union seek help regarding your employment situation or a free consultation with an employment solicitor. Use the yellow pages.
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