It's going to be a happy year - you have a little one on the way who will bring you much joy and happiness! And life should not be put on hold just because your partner has a few debts.
You must sit down together, however, and formulate a plan for your financial future based upon the loss of your earnings and the additional expenditure you will incur when the baby arrives. Also check out the amount of benefit you will be entitled to receive.
When this is known, your partner then needs to talk to his IP to see what options there are, and try and get him to remember that sometimes bankruptcy can appear to be a very attractive option - especially if he owns no assets which would be at risk from creditors.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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