Hi Bri, I'm sorry that you are so disillusioned with your IVA but please try and hang on in there. I was in an IVA and it failed after 4 months as I couldn't afford the repayments and I went bankrupt in March. I know that you feel that your friend is 'playing the system' and 'laughing at it' but sometime BR is the only way out. I didn't take the decision lightly, the same as the others on this forum.
While there is not so much stigma regarding BR, it is with you for the rest of your life. If you apply for a mortgage or to open a bank account for example you can be asked if you have ever been made BR. When you answer yes it can affect the rates you are offered, even if it is years down the line.
To me this is a small price to pay to get me out of a situation that was going to drag me under. If I could have made my IVA work I would have done, but it wasn't to be and BR was my only route.
Good luck with your IVA, I hope it works out for you.
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