Thanks Andy for replying. I was an emotional wreck yesterday [:(]and took a couple of comments made earlier to heart and didn't feel as if yesterday was the right time to reply.
Today I am not so emotional and a lot more relaxed [:)]. We rang our IP this morning and managed to clarify a few things. With regards to the form, apparently they just keep it on file. The information isn't passed onto anyone else etc.
We have also been advised to stop our direct debits with immediate effect in view of our impending variation meeting. Is this normal? Their letter was dated 1 Aug so it was too late to cancel Augusts payment (comes out on 1st) but will obviously be able to cancel Septs payment (hopefully given the 30 notice, the meeting would be held around the 2nd week of Sept.
We were advised that if the variation meeting does go pear shaped [:0] then we would only be one months in arrears and they would know the reasons and it would be ok. Hopefully it doesn't!
Anyway, until last night, only my hubby, myself and my close friend were aware that we had an IVA (apart from you lot and those looking on the register of course [;)]). This obviously made it very hard emotionally for us not being able to speak to anyone. However, we have just bit the bullet and told his mum. (not all the gory details, just the very very basics). Probably one of the best things we have ever done as she has now offered to help us (and is happy filling out the form and providing copies of passport etc etc!!!!).
So, she is popping everything in the post tomorrow and hopefully as soon as the IP receives the form, they can then call the meeting.
Obviously I was grateful to my friend for initially offering us the the money although I still feel a little deflated but I will get over it. However, it actually did us a really good favour in the end and gave my hubby someone other than me to talk to. [:D]
So............. we owed £62,000. Dividend was 33p in the £. We have paid in the last 33 months, a total of approx £16,000. Our FFS figure is £10,700 (including the payment due for Sept) so we are borrowing £10,200.
Just got to sit tight and wait now for the meeting. Roll on September [:D]
xx