Trustee's in bankruptcy will take a view as to whether they feel they have an interest in a property, gained by couples living together and sharing household commitments and expenditure. This is a most usual practice with most married couples, I appreciate that this is not how you run your finances, which have always been kept separate from each other.
I feel that you must now take proper professional advice as to your situation before proceeding further. You should not rely upon advice provided by posters on a debt forum - and I accept that this is a very good one - about something as important as the future of the family home. I have advised your husband to the best of my ability, but it is clear that there are matters you wish to find further clarifiation. And this can only be provided by a lawyer with specialist knowledge of personal insolvency matters.
My latter comment I feel is self-explanatory. Creditors may feel that your husband has developed an interest in the property, and is choosing to ignore this. Again - we are talking about perception rather than cold fact, but they are the ones who have the power to say yes or no.
If you do get a lawyer's opinion in writing, your husband's IP can use this to support his IVA being based upon him having no interest in the property. This could well strengthen the case in his, and ultimately your, favour.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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