kal wrote:
My husband is in the contruction trade too (steel fixer), and I am keeping everything crossed that he won;t be laid off (he too is self employed).
We cannot get rid of our car, he needs it to get to work - and getting rid of mine would make no difference to me...I work from home so don't need to drive.
It's all very well saying to change our lifestyle, but most people on here will have already done that by being in an IVA...what worries me is that if one of us is to lose our jobs, then how do we pay our IVA?
k.
I can, hand on heart say that my IVA, and my wife's has been completely liberating. It has forced us to completely re-evaluate how we live.
I wasn't expecting this, and prior to taking it out last year, our lives were obsessed by debt and regrets.
Now we consider the things in life that really matter, and buying the latest fast car, or that £200.00 dress or suit is not one of them.
I live two miles from work, and walking, (my wife now cycles, and loves it) is fantastic. I would never go back.
The walk is good for me metally, it gives me time to reflect on my life, and consider what I want to achieve.
As I say really look at your own life, and chuck out not just the material junk, but all the emotional stuff which is causing you not to live to your full creative potential. The chances are what you can achieve is so much greater than what your friends or the wider culture that you live in thinks you can.