Additional Notes:
Although I had been expecting something to happen for many months past, I will admit that it was a total shock actually receiving the first email from my Contract's Manager, that after so many years, it now became reality.
I have taken on board notes here from wonderful forum members that I am handling all this different to them, but I will admit here and now; from the time of revelation, it took well into the next day for my hands to stop trembling, so I am not some super human... Somehow the shock of it all I think lessened the blow of the bank fraud at the same time, so just got on with trying to deal with it best I could, but within moments of my hands having stopped trembling, they began again because of the bank issues... then dealing with being head up for interview for new job.
With so much going on right now, it is a big blow to the system, but everything is happening all at once, so maybe better than returns of the eebeee-geeebees.
I have taken great strength from the words of support here and so has made a great deal of difference to how I have handled it too, so, if you too feel that you are alone in your issues, be sure that solid and empathetic (not looking sympathetic) views will be taken from this forum... It does make a difference!
In my outreach website, I promote support for welfare and distress and I look forward when I have good time and frame in mind to begin creating a page dedicated to this forum instead of the couple of loose text links I have at the moment. I feel that this forum is an asset to many aspects of support, and not just IVA, BR or the like, but also for health matters, as the understandings of all on here are the cure and can even be the medicine... So, doctor, doctor, prescribe me a winning lottery ticket... pretty please! (tee-hee)
No, really, thanks to all you bods out there, you mean so much to my healing of all this and never realised before joining all those weeks ago, that you could make such a difference.
Gordon
Try to develop the present to change the future that will enhance new memories of the past...
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