To be honest i have asked her to speak to her employer about a monthly payment, but fear this may get eaten by the 10/50/50 rule, ive also asked her to speak to the regarding relocating but renting if they would be willing to cover the rent for 5yrs
Zero -- are we talking about her IVA, or do you have interlocking IVA's or a simple IVA each ?
Wholly dependant on the amounts we are talking about -- but is it possible you could offer the £30k as a full and final ? At this moment in time it isn't a payment you have agreed to receiving and you could put it forward that you'd agree to getting this ONLY IF it would be accepted as a f&f.
This will have the effect of "releasing" the current monthly IVA payment towards the extra travelling expenses.
My opinions are merely that .. opinions based on experience. Always seek professional advice.
IVA Completed 23rd July 2013 .... C.C. 10th January 2014