Thank you all I have a lot to think about and we are due to meet her family next weekend. To be honest I was not very understanding at first but reading some of the posts I now feel quite guilty by my own reaction. This can happen to all sorts of people. I feel this 'window' experience that I have h...

Gee, Thank you for your lovely kind replies. My wife was working at the time but we moved away and now we are trying for a child, I will try to approach the creditors with the offer and mention that BR is the only other option, they might accpet it, if not we will think again. I have had a look at t...

Hello, I am new here but have been reading with interest I recently found out that my wife has run up debts of around 40K and she has confessed to me. They are all in her name and she does not work. Her father has offered her 10K to try to get her out of it but he does not know the full extent of th...