Thank you to everyone who is giving me advice and support, it really does help. I think deep down I've always known I can't keep up this level of working time and I'm just at the point now where it's got to be dealt with - crunch time you might say. I think I'll wait for the offer to come officially...

Hadn't looked at it like that....its true enough that if I stay as I am then I'm likely to lose my wife and my boys who I love so much I can't describe....if I lose them I'd prob just give up anyway and let it all just crumble down around me

My IP seems so difficult to talk to...I feel like they only ever give me bad news like at my income reviews. I don't feel like they are likely to want me to change jobs if it means a lower return for the creditors...what if I just did it anyway (for my own sanity) - what's the worst that could happen?

Hi, I'm new to this forum but I need some advice please. I started an IVA about 17months ago and for the most part It's been working. But I'm working horrendous hours, some weeks up to 70+ hours a week 6 or 7 days a week and its awful. My wife tells me it is making her and my two young boys (aged 3 ...