I will thanks Leslsy, afternoon napcomming up - it may be another long night!! x

Thanks Lesley, it was an outside shot anyway as we don't have any spare cash!! I would have had to ask family, so that's a releif!! x

Hi Lesley, Can you do it in BR s well and what sort of sums are involved?

Hi Kallis, things can only get better. I'll try to keep helping as I know how much all of you have helped me through my difficult times. xx

I keep reading about F & F, but no=one has explained what it is. I should know this from before, but I now have fatigue brain and am not firing on all cylinders. Can someone exlain please?? Thanks!![:(]

Hi Kallis,
We're OK, I take every day as it comes - although that can be scarey!! It's not a good day today - been up since 3am due to hubby's back pain. Still such is life, we cherish every day we have together. I've answered a few posts and hopefully have been of some help to others!! x

Hi, Try not to worry. My husband is on the highest DLA and due to the fact I am off work in order to care for him, his DLA is what is keeping us afloat (for basic shopping, etc)- I have been on half pay and go to no pay soon. I am BR and my my OR has been very understanding - my re-payments have bee...

Hi s-star, Check your contract, if you've been there nearly two years my guess is you can have a number of months off sick on full pay and then some on half pay. Get to know your rights under the terms of employment. By no means hand in your norice - that is work and financial suicide - it will make...

Thanks Everyone, you are all the most caring, supportive and wonderful people in the world and I love you all. Gary and I have super support from MacMillan Cancer Care and St. Peter's Hospice here in Bristol. Our G.P's have also been amazing. Unfortunately Gary's spinal secondaries mean he has a col...

Hi Again, Sorry but I tried to answer some posts, but my technology skills have let me down and I've lost my replies...no improvement there! I have to sign off as Gary needs me for some nursing care..... Love you all and again, sorry for my absence which was quite selfish when others need our help.#...

Thanks everyone, Please excuse my spelling mistakes - you should read every message before you press send!! I know, more than most, that life can be hard. Still I count my blessings that I met Gary, and have had some time with my soul mate - I will be eternally grateful for that - I have had an expe...

Tanks Kallis & Skippy, I really appreciate your welcoming me back - I've neglected veryone on the site and not given helpmand advice I amy have. That makse me feel bad, so your friendship means a lot. xx Gary and I will not live a long and happy life, he really is terminal, the Oncology Hospital hav...

Groan... Wizz i thought you got better as time went on, but now I'm dobting myself....xx

[?] Hi All, Sorry I've been away for so long but I've been on a long and hard journey - you wouldn't expect anything else from me....but last April my lovely OH got suddenly diagnised with terminal cancer. It started with back pain then foot drop and things escalated from there. Gary was eventually ...

Hi Mrs S, I hopw you are feeling better today. Tamiflu should only be taken within the first 48hrs of symptoms - after that it won't be helpful as your body is already developing antibodies to the virus. I am on the rota for our local Anti Viral Collection Point and although you may be taken through...