I don't know what would happen to the equity in the house, I have not investigated it. Unfortunately the house is not just in my name, it is in his as well. I assume the reason the IVA was agreed was because of the bulk of it was my husband's debt? This is reassuring to know though, thanks so much f...

Yes, you are right. The 35k is my debt, 75k his. I put 60k deposit into the house, he did not contribute.

I don't have a problem with getting a valuation, the estate agent who did it last time was very understanding and had been through a similar relationship breakdown herself.

Property was valued at 270k last March. Mortgage is 160k. My deposit was 60k.

He has 75k approx, I have 35k approx

It is going to be very tough. I don't see why I should pay for everything and he run away from all responsibility. He was even meant to pay for the costs of the divorce as he admitted adultery! I doubt if anyone will see that money!

Finally the IVA company have informed me that he has stopped paying altogether - something which I dreaded. They are now asking me to pay half the original fee as he says that is all he can afford. So now I will be paying everything and he gets away scot free without even paying for the divorce. I w...

The company who supplied the IVA are not responding to my letters, emails or calls!

I also have found out I am unable to remortgage with C&G as I have an IVA, can you recommend who to contact for a new mortgage when I sell?

I have recently divorced from my husband who left me 6 months ago. We entered into an IVA together in January 2007, his debts were 3 times mine. We originally split the bills equally but I am now left with all the mortgage and household bills. He is still paying the monthly payment though. My solici...