Thanks kallis. I am going to go to citizens advice and I am hoping my mum will allow me to stop with her for a few days to get things in order without the mind games. I have spoken with my boss and have arranged a few days holiday so hopefully my next post will be more positive. I am going to sell q...

Thanks again for your posts. I have had a few days off work as my head is in bits. We both work at the same place, he is not my direct boss but he can make my life difficult there as well as he has alot of authority and I have to deal with him quite a bit. I would struggle to get another job for the...

He wants me off the mortgage and the deeds. How much is this likely to cost? I'm fully aware that this is the beginning of the end as far as the relationship is concerned. Its all getting very nasty. I do contribute to the mortgage etc but no where near 50% so I dont know where I stand. I contribute...

Thank you for the support, glad I came across this site as I was feeling like I was the only person in this position. Looking like I need to find somewhere to rent, a studio flat, low maintenence. Will landlords do a credit check and my debts go against me?

Hello again. I missed some information out. As it stands I contribute £200 to joint account towards mortgage. Apart from debts and my contribution to the joint account my outgoings are now £70.50. My partner deals with utilities etc. My partners income is £2000 a month and outgoings about £1750 a mo...

My partner is aware of half of my debts and talking about kicking me out as it is. My basic wage is £1000 monthly and the outgoings I pay on my debts (without dibbing into credit cards etc which I have been doing upto recently) are £900. I have been to the bank today to discuss my options, re mortga...

I have debts of £25000 which my partner has become aware of as he started the process of looking for a better mortgage deal. We have a joint mortgage, £66000 equity but £60000 was from the sale of my partners home, how much of this would this be considered as joint assets if I started an IVA, could ...