what a shame freelili doesnt post anymore always thought she talked a lot of sense. doesnt anyone know how things turned out for her?

Charles

Hi all, havent been on for a while, how is everyone...has anyone heard from freelili lately, she has children like mine, it's nice to speak to folks who understand....anyway debt problems now resolved yeah!!! got left some money.

Hi Lily,

Been reading your blog and would suggest that you contact your child's disability team to act on your behalf, that's what I would do.

Charles

Anyway Cinders! you seem to have a lot on your plate with your disabled kiddies and your health problems....how do you cope, I have enough trouble juggling my finances (incidentally the info I have gleaned off this site has been invaluable), what are they going to do about your liver problems?? is t...

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soooooooooooo freelili shall we call you cinders from now on?

C

Had to laff at the sheep dip etc., I am a technophobe and when it comes to using shortcuts like text messaging etc...... what are ugs freelili, really made me laff??, you are a trooper I have to say!

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Charles

As I say must be hard for you especially in the teenage years!

The debt is another issue, not sure yet if I want to disclose that info beady eyes and all that, I am due a small windfall, not sure if I will pay some of the debt off or wait a while.....still giving it some thought.

How on earth do you cope, I find it hard enough, my son is 8, I think it will get harder as he gets older, how old are yours?, its good to talk with poeple with similar problems.

My...... Lily that must be a challenge, I have one cerebal palsy and in a wheelchair, what ages and what disabilities do yours have, hard isnt it to cope sometimes.

Wow!, how many disabled children do you have Lily??

oops sorry didnt mean to open such a can.....worms everywhere eh!.

Re life insurance, there are lots of over 50 specials at the moment for those of a more mature age , I dont think life insurance should be excluded from IVA.

Charles

Wouldnt you consider stopping smoking as one way to pay some of the debt back?, I think it is wrong to allow a value for smoking in an IVA.