Hey I just wanted to say thank you to all for your advice. It helpes me so much. I have spoken to my partner and we can see a light at the end of the tunnel. He has just got to find out from his IP about the compensation money so fingers crossed all goes well. Thank you to you all. I will keep you p...

Thank you angelrainbow.

I won't leave it too late as my sister had problems conceiving so I know what problems could lay ahead if I do leave it too late. I know we are not ready yet but maybe in a couple of years we will start trying x

Well I'm willing to wait if we have to because we don't live together and my partner would rather us live together before we have kids even though we spend pretty much most of our time together. He never hid the IVA from me. He told me from when we met so I knew what I was getting into (not that it ...

Thank you all for your support. I just wish there was more I could do to help him but this is all I can do right now. He goes through so many emotions each month and my partner thinks its affecting our relationship even though I reassure him its not. We have talked about our future and we have decid...

Thanks. That is more help than you realise. i know its not expert advice but that put together with what I read from last nights thread has helped me somewhat. At least it gives me something to start with. I just feel so helpless and I don't like seeing partner so down about it all x

I'm not too sure he was going throught the IVA before we started dating and he doesn't like to burden me with all of it so he keeps a lot of it to himself. But I just want to help. x

Yeah it was. He suffered some quite bad injuries and still suffers now with some of them. He just feels that he has to hand over the money. Yeah i read that post just seemed a bit confusing on some it as I'm not in an IVA I dont understand some of the technical stuff x

Thank you everyone you have all made me feel so welcome already. My partner is a few months into an IVA and he recently got a letter from a company he had a compensation claim he put in about 2 years ago. He thought the claim had been dropped and thats why he never mentioned it to the IVA company. N...

Thanks julie. Yeah the IVA is all in his name too. I joined here because he is going through a bit of a rough patch at the moment and he doesn't know what to do so I thought I would see if I could find some answers for him x

I will. And thank you for giving me a warm welcome. x

no i'm not i haven't got enough debt to qualify for one. but my partner is in one. thanks for the welcome x

mine is a reflection of how i am feeling in life at the moment. i know debt can bring you down but you must also enjoy the good things in life