Thanks again everyone especially Melanie for taking the time to reply. Just noticed I typed twice that his monthly wage is £13,000 of course that is £1300 - make it alot easier if it was the first figure!! Glad the company he is using is known to you - so that is comforting that they are ok. After r...

Thanks so much for all the advice so far. I feel so helpless that he is so stressed. He is away for a few more days and the minute he gets back I will go through everything with him, looking at the figures and get back to the forum and take up the kind offers. I do know the company he is using is Mc...

Good Evening First time I have posted. I am trying to find out as much as I can for my very stressed partner. Background is my partner is in the Army he has had an IVA since Sept 2006. We are not married and he lives on base so I was not involved in the process as I had only just met him then. When ...