hi cybus & melainie thankyou for your valuble advice ,we are selling to rent from the council as we have 3 small children and this place is one bedroomed which we staying in for so long to try to pay back to creditors as much as we could ,we owe around £180,000 and even though my husband is self employed payplan offered us a mortgage of another 40,000 to move house with ??? !!! which we decided against as we havent had any credit at all now for 4 yrs and we knew we could'nt really aford it ,but we have paid into a dmp ,but as its such a large amount we owe and works not always there we have been struggling ,this is why amongst obvious reasons of the house been over crowded that we decided to offer our home as lump sum payment .
I understand what you are saying as far as treat creditors equally but the house will be sold regardless as we can't stay here and the council are rehoming us due to over crowding so we can't afford to pay rent and the mortgage !!
if the lump sum was'nt accepted would it be fair to offer my half of the equity towards my own bankrupcy ? as i only receive the usual child benefits etc ,and could my husband then use his half of the equity to either offer a larger amount as a lump sum iva on his own ,as he owes much less than me ,then his offer would be almost 50p in the £ his debt is £68,000 and he would then be offering around £35,000 .
i know i'm babbling on ,but really just want things sorted out so we can try to live normally this is hanging over us at the moment and i want to be as fair as i can all round.
the other option is if i go bankrupt and he has a dmp but we arent fans of this because as i mentioned before we don't have much disposable income and can't guarentee that we could afford set payments each month ,we would obviously rather hand over his equity in a lump sum iva at a higher rate if possible .
i wish i understood all this much more,thankyou again
