Dare I say, Macmillan, cancer support "Is it not you ill" sites............they DO and will help but to be totally honest, so few people post there when things are going well, and once things are right, done, over with, they want it all behind them.................just my experience so far.............LOVELY TRULY LOVELY people, dying.
yep today...my lovely precious uncle and I am absolutely devastated... my dad is heartbroken and I can't describe the sadness I feel.[:(]
BUT....that is nothing compared with what you are going through. You will get through it Ida and you and your lovely family will be together as 1 this time next year. xx
So sorry to hear your sad news Swans_girl - wish I could say something to make you feel better right now - but from experience all I can say is that time helps you deal with the sadness.
Ida Clare you are a very strong and caring lady. Please stay strong and positive.
I am so sorry Swans_girl to here of your sudden loss.
Regards, David Mond, Insolvency Practitioner for over 46 years. Personal Insolvency Practitioner of the year 2012, Personal Insolvency Practitioner of the year finalist 2013 & 2014 awarded by Insolvency & Rescue Magazine and 2015 finalist for Personal Insolvency Firm of the Year.
Sorry for your loss swan girl, i lost a patient early hours this morning and i was devistated, you try not to get attached but its really hard not to. People look at us nurses as hard, but we are not...i went home and cried.
Ida i hope things are ok with you hun, stay strong
Julie, all I have done here is take. ever since that first night I sat upn here with comrade smirnoff for company!
ARE YOU OK?
We all take steps, don't we? MY money worries are worse than your credit card bill, MY IVA is worse than your tighter belt........each and every experience is every t as bad as the next and I probably am too daft to learn but I don't learn or get stronger from each step, they all hurt, all hurt as bad as any other.
I was okay, until I switched off from phoning everyone and checking on Dad. Now I can't stop crying, because I know how much my Dad will be hurting and that upsets me so much.
..but I do know my uncle had a wondeful funny life and he would hate us to be sad! In fact I bet he's up there cheering on the horses in whatever race he's bet on....he was a jockey and loved racing.
Thanks for your kind thoughts.....please lets concentrate on Ida nad her lovely family xx
You know, I will never be the one left behind, he will be, the chemo will shrink it, the surgeon will remove it, Dr arrogant said he would, me I loathed him lol! My husband will be more free of cancer than anyone the day after the op, won't he? WHO knows what they have? WE WILL know what he has, NOTHING anywhere.
Julie, we all, every one of us SHOULD be able to say that about each and every one we know.
He never smoked, at 42, he has this!
NO ONE DESERVES this, no one deserves to be left behind Julie.
Thinking of you all Julie, and saddened by your loss this week. Look after your Dad - men like to pretend that they are strong but they often need a cwtch.
Hope everything goes ok today with your dad. Thinking of you.
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Sorry to hear about your uncle Julie, keep an eye on your dad us men have a big habit of bottling things up inside.
Good to see you sounding more positive Ida, I know you have a long hard road ahead but when you get through this nothing in life can ever be as bad. We are always here for you.
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