Hiya all xxxxxxxxxxx
Sincere hopes you are all well.
As always heartfelt thanks for you all, just being you and getting me this far.
I have no news re IVA, lady at payplan totally lovely, nothing too much trouble for her but she can only put the case to the creditors, had a bit of a turn, she told me they can and probably would take the house if there was any equity, my first reaction was a few miliseconds before I call the papers, and then I thought well, I can't afford the mortgage anyway, they'd be doing me a favour, but in the end there is no equity and so the hosue is relatively safe re creditors.
Ok so my R and his cancer, forstly the gullet is inoerable, radiotherapy and chemotherapy.
He has a second cancer, not secondary, niot a spread one an cancer in his jaw (I know I have posted this before, I am probably getting my own mind in place as much as anything!)
They have one biopsy there, it's cancer and he can't open his poor mouth because of it (not too bad because he can't swallow anyway) but they took another because they want more detailed DNA or some such info on it, no results yet.
We have hit a kind of normality.........cancer dictated but is as normal as we can make it.
Anyway, as always, thank you all.
No real news, just the usual hope and uncertainty.
