Look on Tuesday - post will be on there sometime - my wife has to get him which she will. Post will be "For Ida Clare" Keep your spirits up! As Jan says, jus rant on here - I've done enough of it!
Ida - you need to let it out, but I can understand that it will scare the kids. How old are they?
We're here for you. Just feel so helpless though that we cannot do more.
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I'm sure they are a credit to you both. A bit young to understand what is going on though - how do you explain it to them?
My daughter is 21 on Tuesday - big family party tomorrow. It seems like yesterday that she was born.
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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I do hope so! We've got enough food to feed an army!
You can call me Jan, by the way!
Keep posting, even if it is only to keep your spirits up!
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
It is bound to knock the stuffing out of you - and it won't hurt to just sit and let it sink in before you get up and come out fighting - both of you!
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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It has and it hurts Jan, it hurts, I know what hurts means now. We had good jobs, he still has his, I lost mine, It hurt to say NO to them, and it b***** stung to make them pass clothes down, DID NOT KILL THEM, but how many modern children are familiar with the concerp of the hand me down? MINE now are!
WE MESSED UP US Mum and Dad!
The kids pay, someone stole a pencil, a pencil with the spongebob logo on it from my little girl, she never used it, like EVERYTHING she knows, MUM and Dad don't have the money to get her that stuff,
A few MONTHS, 10 months away from a LIFE, HOW did it get here?
OK apologies, how many hours have I been awake now?
Ida I really feel for you at the moment you are really suffering. May be worth you seeing your gp as he may be able to aleviate some of your worries by at least answering some of your concerns. I know you must be really hurting but please stay strong for your husband and your children. You take care.
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I am so sorry IVas, I honestly am, this is not the place to ........it's not right.
I looked for 3 months worth of pay statements, mine are here his aren't, they are not here, if they were I'd have found them, the house is ripped apart they are not here, I paniced, there is no money to pay the next payment it's not here.
this is just the place to sound out and get your feelings out... an amazing amount of warm hearted people that even though they are going through their own stresses are caring enough to care for others, they carried me through my darkest thoughts. It is very sad what has happened and it may feel dark and lonely where you are but we are all here and you will get through the dark. i know it is hard but you really need to get some sleep, take some nytol or horlicks and just try and rest as not enough sleep makes us all more emotional xxx have a rest we are here when you wake up xxx
