Ida - if strength and positivety counts for anything, well you deserve to win hands down! What a special lady you are and I'm sending you all the positive prayers and vibes I can.
If you need a lift/car to use to velindre I can help you there..and Porthcawl may not be the Exotic holiday of your dreams, but if you fancy a break there let me know.[;)]
Errrrrrrr!!! Give me the Caribbean any time! Not that I've been there!
Mel - I thought you were talking about Coney Island for a minute! I have been there and it's great. Distant memories though!
Keep trying Ida - you'll get to these exotic places one day - all of you!
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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Remember things always have to get worse before they get better..... and I am sure although the chemo makes your husband worse it will also make him better.
Cancer treatment is without doubt a very difficult course of treatment. The best part of it is that one day you can look back and say it has given me my life. It is difficult but the support R is receiving from Ida and also the treatment, he is getting the best possible care that anybody could wish for. We are always here for you Ida for anything at all.
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It is the chemo making him so ill, the cancer would have killed him but the chemo makes him so so ill. It also chemically depresses him as in it, in itself is a depressant and of course for him, swallowing anything is a trial, so swallowing anti depressants wouls be more stress.
We had th papers from payplan today, I haven't actually read them, they tell the creditors about R's illness, explain the figures and house details, Payplan actually asked for a house valuation, I did arrange one and the day it was down for was a bad health day so I cancelled,I will do whatever it takes give what I can but a stranger here when he was so so sill..............no way HE is first last and in the middle.
As it turns out we just need to sign some statements and that is that, up to the creditors.
Your hubby is most definitely first and foremost Ida.
I am sure that your creditors will be very sympathetic.
If there are any problems, then I'm sure the entire forum will go round to all the creditors and beat them into submission for you!
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
I was told by Payplan the creditors could look at the house and say "OK fine, we'll take the house and share that then" or the car (good luck on that one, we only have it because I cried at the insurers about needing it to drive to the cancer centre, the creditors won't have any good from it)
HOPEFULLY they WILL be human, we have no more money, we have nothing left now, literally our kids and my health.
I can't see the creditors saying that - there aren't words to describe them if they did that (well there are, but they are not printable on here!).
They are human, and will hopefully see that what you have paid in should be accepted as a full and final. You need to concentrate everything on your family and your hubby.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
Fingers and everything else crossed for you and hubby Ida. Hubby is in the best of hands and will get through this. One day you can look back on it all and be stronger better people for having got through it all.
Love
Paul
Discharged today the 8th feb 2012. View is much brighter now.
Continuing to rebuild our credit worthiness.
If you want to pop down to my office in Cardiff with those papers, for me to help you look through them, you are more than welcome - or I could meet you up at Velindre on one of your visits if that suits you better.
Don't you just love the support on this forum - second to none!
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
