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Post by Shining » Mon Oct 26, 2009 1:31 pm
Glad to hear that things have improved for all of you x
IVA final payment left the bank on the 26th January 2013...looking forward to a debt free future.
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Post by Ida Clare » Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:24 pm
Hello all and thank you, as always, thank you eh?
Ok we are all here, his IVA is gone, papers in place all that. Mine is also done, Payplan tell me anyway, but I am still on the list of insolventsor whatever it is called. Payplan told me the vote to accept full and final payment for us both was 100%, something of an oddity, they said but we are both debt free, thing is they sell the debts on, so tracking them all down is a challenge. I am told I have no worries, all my creditors said they agree but they have not yet paid all of them!

Rich had a stroke, the vascular damage caused by the chemo was huge. This is the latest he suffered, in addition to the cancer and it's spread, he has truly suffered more than anyone can ask of him.

I am so so grateful I still have him, he is suffering, ill, hurting, and FIGHTING.
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Post by MelanieGiles » Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:07 pm
It is great news about the IVAs Ida, but less so about your hubby's health. He most certainly is a fighter, and the removal of the debt stress must be a great thing for you all. Hope the kids are OK too, and if there is anything that we can do you know where we are. Keep in touch as we all often think about you.
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Post by Lisa2009 » Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:10 pm
How lovely to hear from you.

I am so so sorry R has had such a rough time....well all of you.
Nothing anyone says can make you feel better but please believe, we are all thinking of you and spurring R on to keep fighting.
Please keep in touch xxxxxx
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Post by rhondda2 » Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:40 pm
Just hoping your husband gets better.Take care of yourselves ....
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Post by kallis3 » Thu Feb 18, 2010 6:52 am
Hello Ida and lovely to hear from you again.

So sorry about R's latest setback but it is good to see that he is still fighting. That's the main thing, and I'm sure he will get there.

At least you don't have to worry about your debt anymore.
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Post by Shining » Thu Feb 18, 2010 7:48 am
Hi from me too and so nice to hear from you again, all the best xx
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Post by Julie » Thu Feb 18, 2010 8:37 am
Lovely to hear from you Ida - we think about you a lot. Great news about the debts..or lack of.

Sorry to hear about R, but he certainly is a fighter and with your spirit too, you're a fantastic team!


Hope the children are ok and I echo waht the others have said, we are always hear to support you in whatever way we can.

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Post by Skippy » Thu Feb 18, 2010 9:06 am
It's good to hear from you again Ida Clare, but I'm so sorry to hear about R's health.

Please keep in touch - as the others have said we do think about you, and we're here to support you xxx
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Post by kallis3 » Thu Feb 18, 2010 5:48 pm
We do think about you a lot, you know that we are always here if you need any support, either on or off forum.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
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Post by Ida Clare » Thu Mar 11, 2010 1:35 am
He has had so so many things to overcome, the cancer, a stroke, infections............yesterday at 9.20 ( I know this because him and me, we had a plan, I do the 3 kids/3schools taxi and nurse him, and do it all before 9.25, JEREMY time!) he had had enough, he didn't want to die was terrified, he battled every threat, his lungs filled up with fluid, and by 5 am yesterday he was drowning, he did not want to so we called foer help, first help ever, ever, I nursed him, I did everything nd it was NOTHING he was HERE.

Yesterday because the cancer was in his bones they could not touch him in A&E wityhour hurting him , I could and so I DID even when they drained his chest, he didn't want to drown and once he wasn't, once he was breathing better he decidedit was time, or he decided he was just beaten.......................he died in my arms, 9.20 with me calling him back, he didn't want to go and I didn't want him to.....................he couldn't come back.

RICH died
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Post by Shining » Thu Mar 11, 2010 4:28 am
Ida, I have no words except tears, I am so sorry to read this.....to let you know we're all here for you doesn't seem enough but we are and my personal thoughts are with you at this time as they have been previously xxxx
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Post by kallis3 » Thu Mar 11, 2010 6:33 am
Ida, I am so, so sorry to hear this

Words seem so inadequate at a time like this.

Just want you to know that I am thinking of you all.

R.I.P Rich.

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Post by Struzzo39 » Thu Mar 11, 2010 7:15 am
So sorry to hear of your loss. Together with the love and support of your children, family and friends, slowly you will get through this.
Thinking about you all xxxRIP
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Post by Julie » Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:01 am
Oh Ida, I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't think of any words that would begin to cover what you must be feeling.

My heart is aching for you, the children and the family.

You have been so brave.

It seems so inadequate to say, but if there is anything we can do....well we will.

Rest in Peace now Rich....xx
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