Barb, everytime I had a loan to pay off a card, I'd say 'emergency use only' for the card. Then I'd see something I liked and would buy one or two things, then I'd put a limit on how much I would use on it. It never worked because before I knew it, it was maxed out again and I'd be dreading the post.
So glad I don't have that anymore. Ok, I can't go out spending, but I'm glad. Me and OH have said that in the past, we have gone out for something, and returned with other stuff as well.
Now, we go out when we need to, and know there is no point in looking for anything because we can't afford it!
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley.
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