Hi Nikky
There is no way to avoid your address being put in the paper unfortunately under bankruptcy proceedings, but as the other posters have mentioned you cannot carry on as you are, struggling.
You therefore really have two choices - persuade your IP to put forward a variation for you based upon current disposable income - your figures indicate you can only really afford £150 so I think it may be unlikely that creditors will accept this, or go bankrupt.
From the facts you have presented, and the other post I have just replied to, I think bankruptcy would be the kindest option, but do give this serious consideration as the most important thing is you and your family's future.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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