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Post by Foggy » Sun Apr 21, 2013 12:46 pm
Well --- sorry, have nowhere to chat about this stuff ... so you lot are going to have to suffer it ...

Did my first shop as a singleton today -- things like that make it sink in ... grown man crying in Tesco -- soooo embarrassing ... of course, it WAS only something in my eye!

So this shop was for me and and little foggy only --- I discovered that HE is the expensive one to feed!!

She who is now my ex has found a bedsit to live in and is now in the process of moving stuff out.
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Post by Pandy » Sun Apr 21, 2013 1:04 pm
Foggy,
Please remember you are not alone and we are all here for you. If you want to rant or moan or complain carry on, we will always support you.

I remember when I had to do the first shop after my first marriage ended it was horrific and I bought way too much just for me and a 3 year old, don't think I needed to shop for about 3 weeks afterwards.
If life is what you make it, I must have been in a strange mood when I made mine
 
 

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Post by plasticdaft » Sun Apr 21, 2013 1:44 pm
Sorry to hear that Foggy. Its only when I hear of others splitting up that I realise how lucky I am with mrs plasticdaft.

We have our arguments etc but couldnt do without each other.

Working shifts that dont match means we dont always spend as much time together as we'd like.


Maybe thats the secret!!!!

Chin up mate.

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Post by Goffy » Sun Apr 21, 2013 1:47 pm
Im going through this myself Foggy so i know exactly where you are coming from. I have the kids to keep me occupied and my job and you WILL get through it. x x
 
 

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Post by Skippy » Sun Apr 21, 2013 1:50 pm
So sorry to hear this Foggy. As the others have said we are all here for you x
 
 

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Post by luluj » Sun Apr 21, 2013 2:01 pm
Stay positive Foggy ...you and the little one need each other and you will come through these difficult times xxx
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Post by Julie » Sun Apr 21, 2013 5:54 pm
Keep strong Foggy, now you've got the first shop out of the way the next one will be easier.

Going through a break up is hard, I felt as if I was grieving when my first marriage broke down. We are here for you and off forum too .

Little Foggy will get you through this. Xx
 
 

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Post by Shining » Sun Apr 21, 2013 8:11 pm
We're here night and day as you know for you to rant and rave as much as you like, you can contact a lot of us via FB too. I'm a good listener and don't mind you having a go to get things off your chest.

Remember you're never alone you've got lots of friends. x
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Post by Struzzo39 » Sun Apr 21, 2013 8:35 pm
Sending virtual hugs xx
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Post by lulu123 » Mon Apr 22, 2013 1:51 am
Foggy its ok to cry, dont feel embarrased. I am sure Little Foggy will help you to get through this bad time. Keep strong.
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Post by lin.r » Mon Apr 22, 2013 8:35 am
Foggy,everyday is an adventure,some good,some really dreadful,like most of mine at the moment!!
We will all get through the best way we can.If you can share your worries with someone,just a little bit of support goes a long way believe me.
We're your support and we'll just keep it coming!!
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Post by Fletch2204 » Mon Apr 22, 2013 3:01 pm
Hi Foggy, keep chin up mate, things WILL change............ I was there 8 years ago, leaving behind a 9 year old and an 8 year old......... cried for a week....... they have lived with me every other weekend since and I now have a great relationship with a 17 and 16 year old.... also learned a lot about myself and now enjoying life... Good luck, Fletch
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Post by miak » Tue Apr 23, 2013 9:59 am
Hi Foggy

I will keep sending you positive vibes. My hubby went through the same with his ex. We meet me 8 months after she left... and we have been together for 15 years.

Life has good stuff in store for you, just hang in there. Keep strong.

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Post by kev59 » Tue Apr 23, 2013 4:47 pm
Keep positive , Foggy life will get better.
I know how down I got after my spit many years ago now. but have now meet the best person in the world. she was there for me when I spit up. Eight years later we meet up again and are now getting married next year.
IVA now over with and it was worth it.
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Post by lem » Tue Apr 23, 2013 4:57 pm
Foggy, I'm so sorry you're going through such a hard time right now, we're all here for you xxx
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