Single life

[Foggy]

Thanks for all your thoughts and wishes.

Amazing, isn't it; Just as you are getting things settled and sorted you get hit in the teeth with this !

I am certainly not going down this particular road again !!

[cooltony]

Foggy,your food bill is expensivebecuase i am guessing you do the single male thing of buying ready meals! we have all been there.i am sure you will find someone else. if your IVA has thought you anything is that life is not about how hard you can get punched but its about how you keep on moving forward.

keep your chin up mate

[Foggy]

Cooltony -- hardly any of the shop was for me (except the jumbo pack of loo rolls!). It's all these bits and bobs the young'un has in his school lunches ... froobs, squishy fruit things --- little drinks in cartons and a hundred and one other things!

Not interested in finding someone else -- there lies heartache ... I will just get my nest comfy and settle to the hermit's life

[cooltony]

Foggy, Time is a greater healer. Feel free to rant on here. i am sure you have posted to 100's of other posts of people ranting.

just rememeber you have of 1,000's of online friend you can turn to when you need us.

[MrsKnight]

Lots of love n positive thoughts Foggy x

Relationships are hard going at times & splitting up totally rips your life apart, but you will get through it, you have to for little Foggy.

XxxxX

[Denise.gn]

Sending you big hugs, I have been there too and it does get better in time. Just try and be kind to yourself. Easy for me to say now but it does get easier. Honest xxx

[Foggy]

Thanks again, all. I am big enough and ugly enough to survive ( mind you, I didn't think that a few days ago -- a bit of bitterness has bouyed me up!). It's little foggy I worry for -- he had a nightmare last night where he was out shopping with his mum, turned around and she wasn't there and he was lost! It doesn't need freud to analyse that one! Poor soul woke up in tears

It's a monk's life for me now -- so much simpler, and no sharp pains in the middle of my back !

[Julie]

You will feel stronger every day Foggy and little foggy will get through this too. When my first marriage broke up, it affected my youngest a lot and I never thought we'd get thorough it. We did and we are very close, it s not easy, but you will come out of this stronger and we are all here to help xx

[lin.r]

Foggy,You really are a star!!Never fail to make me laugh,and I really feel for you.I sincerely wish you and little Foggy a much brighter future.XX

[Foggy]

Over the years, lin, I have developed a somewhat dark sense of humour, which serves well as a personal coping mechanism. I do have to curb it on here sometimes, though, but I try to get a smile in now and again

[Julie]

I have a wicked sense of humour and totally inappropriate for someone who works in HR!

Foggy, you make me smile on here and on FB [:)]

[Andy1964]

Hey Foggy I wish I could offer some words of wisdom for both you and Little Foggy, but I can't, so I won't. Although I will say that if you feel like it's been a big kick in the teeth, then come back with a set of pearly whites to be proud of and show them to the world.......hope that reads as it's meant to, good thoughts mate.

[Foggy]

Hi Andy -- yes, it read right Thanks

[Shining]

I enjoy a good sense of humour and think I have one...albeit sarcastic most of the time.

Hope each day brings you a little more strength Foggy and you and little one support one another but remember we're all here for you too.

[lin.r]

Hi Foggy, I know exactly what you mean about humour, my OH is depressed and he can go days without speaking to me.Without my beautiful dogs I think I'd go mad!
They appreciate a good belly laugh now and again, I tell them all my woes and they listen,don't judge and are always up for a cuddle!
Just wish I could get it across that nothing is ever as bad as you think.This forum helps me no end and when I can have a chuckle at something too it makes my day,Thankyou.