I can't say it enough but the phone cll will not be nearly as bad as you are thinking it will be, all Melanies staff are wonderful and totaly sympathetic and non judgemental.
We will keep you going until Monday x
Be positive & look after yourself, there are more important things in life than debts....
Emma, a little bit of madness keeps you sane.....well thats my philosophy [:D][:D]
Fergie, we're all here to support each other and before you know it, you'll be giving advice and support too....so post away. You could also read some of the blogs, it'll show you how you feel is absolutley normal. xx
I would not usually do this (and sorry Admin if I am crossing the line with regard to promoting my firm) but I am a little worried about Fergiedoggie and would like to be able to have a chat to her this weekend if possible.
I cannot access my firm's website from home, so Admin would you please send me her e-mail address so that I could make contact - if of course FD agrees!
I defo did and I can assure you Melanie is great and all her team are wonderful and can't do enough for you.
I was really nervous when I had a convesation with Melanie[:I] but she is really lovely and having met her a few times since can assure you that she is a genuinly nice person.
i am nearly a year into my iva now and whenever I have needed to make contact, I have had instant responses.
She was the second person I took advice from and was much superior to the first company i spoke to.
You will get nothing bu honest, caring and professional advice[:)]
Be positive & look after yourself, there are more important things in life than debts....
i know youre right x its just hard to shake off that wretched feeling, and now for the first time ive had 2 of my card companies incessantly leaving messages all day cos 2 of my card payments are late !
Or don't answer them. I never answered mine - just wrote to them and said I would only deal with them via letter.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
As actually thats what I did as 'brick wall' was the order of the day with verbal communication. You have the right to refuse to verbally communicate with them. I answered every letter though.