I can assure you ellie that in my experience, and my firm specialises in self-employed cases, that we always find HMRC sympathetic if you have attempted to comply properly with your tax affairs.
Whether an IVA is an option for you I suppose depends on how this would be funded. What are your plans in this regard?
So sorry to hear that you and your partner have decided to separate. It is often an unfortunate repercussion of being in debt, but maybe you can work things out eventually if you can get the debts sorted.
Most IP's will give you advice on a free of charge basis - and yes I know that you are remotely situated, but could you see your way to getting to an IP's office in your vicinity as a face to face meeting would be very valuable.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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