Sunday morning phone calls and tears...

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Post by emma_t » Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:41 pm
I never answered creditors calls at the weekend.
I was at my wits end with the amount of calls in the week and felt I deserved and needed a bit of time without calls.

Creditors only had my work mobile and my home office number which is always plugged into my fax so maybe this was a bit easier for me to say this, but everyone needs a break from the calls.

Can't you unplug the phone and have any important calls to a mobile?

Can really sympathise with you as it is awful, but keep your mind on the end result and when you are safely in your iva the calls will stop[:)]

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Be positive & look after yourself, there are more important things in life than debts....

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Post by kallis3 » Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:51 pm
I'm afraid I changed my mobile number as well. They were constantly ringing me at work, and as I work in an office with a few other people it wasn't convenient to speak. It would have been awkward to have left the office and continued the call outside as in the building where I work, as soon as you move away from the window you lose your signal!

They have never had my office number either.

You can also pay for choose to refuse so when they ring you just block their number. I think it's about £2 or so a month
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Post by fedup and broke » Sun Apr 20, 2008 10:03 pm
Thank you everyone i am going to write a letter of complaint as these phone calls have hounded me.

Good luck for tomorrow kallis3 x
 
 

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Post by maxdebt » Sun Apr 20, 2008 10:15 pm
I had negative disposable income for 4 months so was unable to make even token payments. As a result I got a lot of creditor phone calls!!
I have some advice. Get yourself a wee notepad and start logging every call. Take some of the control away from them!
Get them to identify themselves, who they are calling on behalf of, note the time and date of the call, (Make them wait while you write all this down! and then ask them why they are calling! (It is of course to get you to pay some money :o/ Remember these calls are not personal the callers are mostly on commission. I reminded them when they last called, and what we discussed, then I told them what had changed from the last call (I had no money yesterday, I have no money today!) I then arranged a time and date to call them. No further discussion. If they try to enter into a discussion close the conversation quickly and politely (I’m very sorry as I have already stated I have no spare money, there is no point harassing me for money I do not have, I have made you aware of the progress of my IVA proposal, I will contact you on .... whatever date) Of my ten creditors, 9 of them eventually stopped calling ( I called each one of them weekly to update them) 1 remained persistent, even calling my work ( Goldfish ) I spent a morning calling them till I spoke to someone senior and formally complained to that person ( I believe I used the word harassment a lot!) Interestingly the calls from Goldfish completely stopped, right up to and after my creditors meeting.
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Post by kallis3 » Sun Apr 20, 2008 10:39 pm
Thanks for your good wishes fedupandbroke.

As regards the phone calls, I really would not have the patience to keep trying to talk to them. It really is like banging your head against a brick wall - they will not listen to you. I will see what happens after tomorrow and if I am successful I just might answer one to give them the good news!
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Post by buttercup » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:09 am
Hi

When I first started my IVA i was recommended by Debbie to change my number which I did not want to do as I thought it would look bad for my with my creditors. I did change it & it had no effect at all on my IVA decision which was accepted on the 10th April. So if it gets too much change it, you do not have to put yourself through this.
 
 

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Post by lily » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:49 am
Hi

I had this posted to me by Kerri when I was suffering from harrassment from one of my creditors. I made a complaint and was left alone. I know how horrible this can be, its a long post but it helps to put things into perspective.
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Post by lily » Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:53 am
lily sorry this is a long post but i have told you about this post b4 it is written by an insolvency practitioner , i hope this helps.

Right you worms, get ready for turning! It's time to put these collection agencies in their place!

WARNING – LONG POST

This post has been inspired by a number of people who of late, have been reduced to tears and in one or two cases, have even thought about 'ending it all'.

UNDERSTAND THIS, AND UNDERSTAND IT WELL! – YOU OWE CREDITORS MONEY, NOT YOUR LIFE!

Yes, your creditors or their agents are allowed to contact you if you default on a loan repayment or credit agreement. They are even allowed to contact you at work (but they must not discuss your debts with your work colleagues) or call at your home to discuss the matter with you (although you are not obliged to discuss it with them and you are perfectly within your rights to ask them to leave). But what they are NOT allowed to do is to harass you, discuss your situation with neighbours, pretend that they have more powers than they do have, pretend that they have the right to visit your home and take away goods or add collection fees to your debt, call you repeatedly at work or during unsociable hours.

Regrettably, some over zealous collection agencies seem to be flouting the laws because they know that most people are not aware of what they can and can't do. There are a number of laws that protect people in debt from unreasonable behaviour from creditors or their agents, namely, Section 40 of The Administration of Justice Act 1970 and specifically, The Protection from Harassment Act 1997.

Let's be clear about this, it is a CRIMINAL OFFENCE if a creditor or their agent makes demands for money in such a manner that it causes the debtor or his/her family, alarm, distress or humiliation. Specifically, harassment is a criminal offence under Section 2 of The Protection from Harassment Act 1997 and punishment on conviction, is six months' imprisonment and/or a level 5 fine (up to £5,000).

Before we can begin to tackle harassment, I think it is relevant to understand why creditors or their agents use 'questionable tactics' in their endeavours to collect in delinquent accounts. In a nutshell, it is fear. The first thing that happens is that they realise that they are not the only creditor. Upon this realisation it seems to set off an 'every man for himself' reaction and they appear hell bent on forcing as much payment as they can, in as quick a time period as possible, from their 'victim'. The idea here seems to be, damage limitation. “The more we can get in now, the less we are likely to lose in the long run”. In my opinion, this is a very short sighted policy and in fact only serves to worsen the situation and in many cases, actually tips the decision to declare bankrupt.

Let's look at some of the more common threats or tactics used by these 'debt collectors' and analyze them a bit.

1. “We won't accept £25 per month, we will only accept a minimum of £38.50 per month and if you don't pay this, we will take you to Court.”

It's the 'Take you to Court' part that is designed to frighten you and understandably this does get results for them. No-one wants to go to Court do they? Or do they? First of all, the threat of Court action is usually an empty one and this action is usually reserved for people who won't make any kind of payment or who ignore them. If you do what we recommend on this board, produce a statement of affairs and make a realistic offer in line with your ability to pay, there is no way in this world that they would take you to Court. Why? because the likelihood is, that the Judge would absolutely wipe the floor with them for wasting Court time and it is even more likely that the Judge would make an order for payment for LESS than what you actually offered and also it is likely that the Judge would not award them any costs. FACT: the Courts will not permit your income to be lowered below a level which you require to subsist. So, if you can't afford to pay more than you've offered, there is not a Law which will make you do so. Creditors know this but they are banking on the fact that you do not – now you do.

2. “If you don't pay us at least £50 a month, we will send one of our collectors round to your house”

And? Let me know what time he's coming and I'll buy a cake, is it one sugar or two? Again, it is the 'fear' of someone turning up on your doorstep that they are relying on to get you to commit to more than you can afford. Debt collection agencies do have a license to make 'site visits' (within reasonable hours) to your home to attempt to discuss the matter with you although they very rarely do this because it costs them a lot of money. However, they have absolutely no right of entry, they have no right to take anything from you and you are under no obligation to discuss anything with them. Very often you will get more sense from a visitor than you would with someone calling you over the phone so I'm not saying categorically don't discuss anything with a collector if they do turn up, but I am saying don't feel intimidated and don't feel obliged to do so. If you are not comfortable discussing the matter with a visitor, keep cool and ask them to leave, if they refuse to leave, tell them they are trespassing and that if they don't leave, you will call the police. If they remain, call the police, tell them that someone is trespassing on your property and there is likely to be a breach of the peace.

3. “If you don't pay us now, we will send the bailiff around next week to seize your goods” – 99% of the time this is total hogwash. Unless they have a County Court Judgment against you, they can not instruct a Bailiff. Even if they do, contrary to popular belief, you do not have to allow a Bailiff into your home and they cannot force access.

These are the three most common frighteners that they will use. Now if this doesn't have an immediate effect, they will resort to harassment, that is, they will call you on the phone continually, some times being mean and nasty. This means that they are getting desperate and whilst you should recognise it for what it is, there is no way that you should put up with this, so how should you tackle this?

Well, the first and most vitally important thing to do is as I said previously, is to work out your expendable income by deducting all of your essential outgoings from your total income, this will leave you with your expendable income. From this figure deduct £50 per month for emergencies because they do happen (boilers have an alarming tendency to break down in the middle of winter) and with the remainder work out a pro-rata payment plan. This way, the larger creditors get a proportionately larger payment and the smaller creditors get a smaller payment. To do this you first need to calculate the 'Multiple' this is the figure which you will multiply each individual debt by, to determine who gets paid what.

For example, for simplicity's sake, let's say that your total expendable income is £400 per month and you have 3 creditors, creditor 1 is owed £10,000, creditor 2 is owed £7,000 and creditor 3 is owed £3,000. You have a total debt of £20,000 and you have £400 per month to service the debt. First, divide £400 by £20,000, this will give you a Multiple of 0.02. You then multiply this figure by the amount owed to each creditor, so using the above example, creditor 1 would get 10,000 X 0.02 = £200 per month. Creditor 2 would get 7,000 X 0.02 = £140 per moth and creditor 3 would get 3,000 X 0.02 = £60 per month. This would take 50 months to pay off.

OK, now that you have worked this out, you should send by recorded delivery , a copy of your statement of affairs together with your proposal of payment to your respective creditors. It would also be a good idea to send the first payment cheques to them at the same time, as a gesture of good faith It is also a good idea to include in your letter, the fact that you will review the situation every three months and that if circumstances permit, you will increase the payments. If you use recorded delivery, you can prove receipt of your correspondence by using Royal Mail's track and trace facility on their website here: http://www.royalmail.com/portal/rm If you do this properly, this should make the situation clear to the creditor and even if they don't like the proposal, they will realise that there is nothing more that you can do about it. A point to note here: if £1 per month is all you can afford, do not be tempted to increase the offer because 'it doesn't sound much' if that's all you can afford then that's the end of the matter. The worst thing that you can do is to be intimidated into paying more than you can afford because this will inevitably break down and you will have set yourself a bad track record.

Now the fun starts. Creditor 1 isn't happy that he isn't getting the £400 a month that he's supposed to be getting so he sends for Dennis the Debt collector. Dennis is a real mean sunamabich, 5'2” and seven stone soaking wet but he has the meanest tongue in debtcollectorland. Dennis has learned his trade well and he can use his plastic phone to reduce you to tears in a heartbeat and get you to commit to ridiculous payment proposals so he can get his bonus. Dennis makes dozens of phone calls a day because he knows that he can frighten people by being nasty, telling lies and shouting down the phone. Remember Dennis the next time he calls and realise what he is using to frighten you, it's a piece of plastic, it's not moulded to your ear, if you don't like what you hear in the earpiece guess what? You can put it down and if Dennis rings again, you can go and make a cup of tea (Dennis is paying for the call) and if he's still there when you've had your cup of tea, put it down again. Repeat as often as necessary. You can actually leave the phone of the hook for a couple of hours if you want.

OK, so Dennis starts ringing you at work or starts ringing you regularly, what do you do? Let's play out the scenario:

Phone rings:

You: Hello
Dennis: Hello you, I have been trying to call you all night over this debt that you owe to grabbit and runn
You: Oh really Dennis, why is that?
Dennis: well, we are not happy with your proposal and we want more from you
You: Well I'm sorry but I am just not able to pay any more than I've offered
Dennis: I don't care about that, we want £400 a month or we'll take you to Court.
You: is that so? Well I guess you had better start your proceedings then. I'm sure that the Judge and myself in particular will be very interested in finding out how I am going to be able to conjour up this extra payment when I have made it absolutely clear that I am unable to pay any more. Incidentally Dennis, you would actually be doing me a favour if you did because then, apart from the Judge giving you an almighty rollicking for wasting Court time, he would likely make an order for the payments to be lowered.

Dennis beats a hasty retreat at this point because he has discovered someone who know their rights so he is off to attempt his terror tactics on someone else.

Scenario 2:

You: Hello
Dennis's Mate: Hello you, it's us and we want more money out of you
You: Did you know that I spoke to Dennis last night about this?
Dennis's Mate: I don't care about that, you owe us money and boy, if you don't pay there is going to be real trouble.
You: Look, I am getting tired of this, I have given you my written proposals based on my realistic ability to pay, I am not trying to avoid payment, I am simply not able to pay any more than I have offered.
Dennis's Mate: Yeah well, I've heard it all before and as I said I don't care, if you don't make a payment right now, we are sending someone round to your house tomorrow.
You: Really? Well, let me just make you aware of this. I am now taping the rest of this conversation: (Pause for effect) and I am putting you on notice, that I intend reporting you to the Office of Fair Trading, under Section 40 of The Administration of Justice Act 1970, for Harassment. Furthermore, I will from this point on, only communicate with you in writing and if I receive one more telephone call from you or your organisation, I will see that you face criminal proceedings under Section 2 of The Protection from Harassment Act 1997 and before you say anything further, you may be interested to know that your consumer credit license will not protect you from prosecution. Are we now absolutely clear on the matter?

Then put down the phone and write the following letter:



Dear Sirs,

RE: Your Client – Grabbit and Runn Credit Card

I refer to my correspondence of (date) regarding the debt that I owe to your above named client. A copy of this correspondence is enclosed herewith, for ease of reference.

Since making my financial position clear to you, I have been constantly harassed by your operatives, who have attempted to intimidate me into making payments that I simply cannot afford to make, under my present circumstances.

I wish you to know, that I am aware of my rights and that your constant telephone calls are a breach of Section 40 of The Administration of Justice Act 1970 and any further incidents of this nature constitute a course of conduct, which is a criminal offence under Section 2 of The Prevention from Harassment Act 1997.

Please note, that whilst I take my obligation to you seriously, I will not tolerate such abuse and if I receive any further telephone calls from your organisation, I will have no hesitation in reporting the matter to The Office of Fair Trading, whom you may be interested to know, are currently encouraging reports of this nature.

I would be obliged if you would kindly acknowledge receipt of this letter and confirm that there will be no further attempts to contact me by telephone. I am entirely happy to communicate with you in writing and would be obliged if you would give my proposals, serious consideration.

Yours faithfully

Etc

This should do the trick, but, if it doesn't, keep your cool and report them to the Office of Fair Trading and your local trading standards office. There is now a specific complaint form which you can download from the internet to make an official complaint and you can obtain it here:

http://www.oft.gov.uk/nr/rdonlyres/b399 ... plaint.doc

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE USE IT

I hope that this will help some of you put things into perspective. Remember keep your cool at all times, don't be intimidated by a piece of plastic, if you don't like what you're listening to, put the phone down and remember the most important thing of all is to put and get things in writing at all times. If you think this will help, print it off and keep it near your phone – have fun.

i hope it helps and lightens you up a bit i am so angry that they done that to you.
kerri
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Post by louisa.s » Mon Apr 21, 2008 1:25 pm
Alternatively if you do need to answer the phone I always found this one worked and kept me in control. Whenever the phones rings and you don't recognise the number (if you ID) just answer with "hello" if they ask for you, you ask who is calling giving you an opportunity to screen the call, and then if you don't want to talk to them, you lie through your teeth and say that unfortunately you aren't in and could you pass on a message. They don't leave a message and you then don't get caught up in horrid repetitive conversations with them!!!

Don't let them get you down. remeber you are doing the right thing by dealing with your debt!
 
 

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Post by Shining » Mon Apr 21, 2008 1:31 pm
I spoke to all my creditors whenever they rang but always felt most awkward when I had company or in the presence of my family, I knew I just couldn't leave the phone ringing as they would ask why I wasn't answering, so used to say, 'no I'm sorry he's at work' saying the he's with a slight lisp so it could be miscontrude to sound like she's if it was for me! Naughty I know but then come off phone and say another person wanting to sell me something and go back to original conversation. I do think it's hard and they do get you down but hang in there you're on the way to sorting things out and as louisa.s says you're doing the right thing by dealing with your debt.
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Post by kallis3 » Mon Apr 21, 2008 1:37 pm
Good idea Louisa.s. Trouble is that for everone of us who is not intimidated by these bullies either on the phone or by post, there are an awful lot of people who are and these idiots know that. A lot of people don't know their rights and are not signed up to helpful forums like this. Most of them have no one to turn to. No wonder these debt collectors manage to get more money out of people - whilst it's nothing personal against you, they must really enjoy their little bit of power
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