mish my heart is with you, its a very dark place at the mo, we won't get council housing in this area as the waiting list is 10yrs, and were there are availabilities i wouldn't like to take my kids they would be eaten alive, have they said to you, that you have to vacate asap, its all confusing to me, the RTLU man yesterday said they wouldn't do anything for 2yrs 3 months, so i was hoping to buy some time as my lad is ages with your daughter 14 and its a really important year this one and next leading upto their GCSE's , my middle son will go crazy if i have to move out the area and away from his precious grandad, as will my daughter who idolises my mum and dad and they feel so grown up being able to walk to grandma's together, i hate myself for what i have done to them and what is going to happen, you can't help it, my eldest is coping best of all, that is in front of me, he has so much here, golf, football, cricket, etc, it breaks my heart thinking he will have to change all his clubs if we have to move into town, we like you can't miss the mortgage payments as we already missed 2 to go BR, and have been told the same if we voluntary surrender we make ourselves homeless, what do you do?
i really feel for your daughter and its not your fault mish but do understand where you are coming from as there myself, i hope things really turn around for us, i really do, give your daughter a big hug from me.
the man from the RTLU made me laugh yesterday when he said can't you offer anything,really wanted to say yes £135 thats all i have in the bank at the mo!!
will that do?
i am sure not many people have a couple of grand lying around, i wish i did.
i am seeing CAB on thursday to see what they come up with re council etc, will let you know.
thinking of you sending you a virtual whiskey to cheer you up
kerri
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