Think we've reached a decision

[Dee]

Hi DM

Glad you are feeling more positive. I always said that once you've made the decision to go BR thats the most difficult thing over with. I was where you are a few months ago and now I've come out the other side and feel sooooo much better.

As I mentioned in a post the other day the relief is so overwhelming you wont be able to feel ashamed. Someone asked me the other day why I had been to court (they thought I was getting divorced) when I casually said that I had gone bankcrupt another colleague commented that I said it as if it was a good thing. My responce was that it was a good thing FOR ME! The alternative really didn't bare thinking about.

There are lots of people on here to guide you through the process.

Good Luck

Dee X

[drowning-mummy]

Thank you everyone for all your support. Still petrified but do actually feel heaps better. Just worried now about finding the money to go to court! Think I'd better get some stuff on ebay!

[facingittogether]

hi darlingmummy

am so pleased you have been able to come to a decision and are feeling more positive!

like others have said, dont worry about anyone else, its your girls, yourself and your hubby that are the most important in all of this and if the decision you have made is right for you(which i am sure it is as you have thought long and hard about it) then nothing or no one else matters!

good luck, keep on posting!

love barb x

[angela18]

its weird isn't that you go bankrupt as got no money, but they expect you to pay.. never understood that..[:I]

[Soulgrowth]

Glad to hear that you have come to an informed decision DM ... as everyone else has said, you have to do what 'feels' right for your own situation.

You make some really valuable contributions to the Forum and I am sure that you will continue on to help others along their own path as a result of your own journey ...

... we are with you all the way [:)]

Debbie

[Skippy]

They also want £60 when you're discharged if you want a certificate!

[drowning-mummy]

Thanks for that Skippy, how long do you remain on the insolvency register for?

[Skippy]

You're on the register for the 3 months from the date of discharge - 7 days and I'm off!

[Soulgrowth]

Wow! 7 days and counting down eh Skip! What a journey you've had as well! [:)]

Debbie