THRIFTY FRIENDS (PART 3)

[kallis3]

I'm so sorry to hear the news Paul, I know how bad you must both be feeling.

Has wonder got to have any sort of surgical procedure? I had to have a D&C when I had mine to make sure everything had gone.

Give my best wishes to wonder - I'm thinking of you both.

[Max]

Just caught up with this Paul-we are both very sorry at your sad news - our thoughts and prayers are with you. J

[ivas4us]

thank you both,It looks as though Wonder will not need a D&C as they said everything had already gone.

[kallis3]

That's good then Paul.

[tori]

I am so very sorry about the news Paul and Wonder. I cannot begin to imagine how you must be feeling....my thoughts and best wishes are with you both. Take care xxx

[Julie]

I'm so very very sorry Paul, please pass on my love to Wonder. I do know how you feel and when I lost the twins last year it was the support of this forum that got me through it - so please remember we are here for you both, night and day.

Take care both xx

[Skippy]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news Paul. Lots of love to you and Wonder xxx

[debtmountain]

I'm so very sorry to hear your news Paul and Wonder,my thoughts are with you both at this incredibly sad time....Remember, we're all here for you both,to give you as much comfort and support that we possibly can...sending you both a BIG hug...Take Care...xxx

[ivas4us]

I am devastated to hear your sad news, and my thoughts are with both of you at this very difficult time.

For a couple who give so much to others on this forum, life can be very unjust and unfair. Please look after each other, and take strength from what is clearly a very strong and binding relationship.

Thank you Melanie for your kind words and thoughts, it means a lot to us. Thank you to everyone, the support we are receiving from you all is very much appreciated and a great comfort. I just wish I could ease the pain for Wonder but I don't know how. I am just jibbering on and don't know how to thank you all but we are very greatful.

[Skippy]

All you can do is be there for her Paul x

[ivas4us]

I will try but I am useless at times like this, she is hurting so bad and I can't do anything to help.

[Skippy]

No-one really knows what to do, but just listen to her if she wants to talk and go with what she wants.

[ivas4us]

that sounds good, Don't wan't wonder to see my next comment but last time I shut myself away and was on the sick for about two weeks. Wonder was going through all the hurt and I just locked myself away thinking about me and me only and Wonder through all her hurting even went shopping to get things to try and pull me through. We were not living together at the time and I remember Wonder went and fetched my hot chocolate to drink as I had nothing else and wasn't eating and had run out of hot chocolate. I let her down so bad and yet she looked after me and was going through all the pain. I love her to bits but I am useless at easing her pain and providing what she wants.

[ivas4us]

we have just been looking through some photos of our little girl and our other children are holding her, it was quite emotional as we saw some happier times for all of us in the photos. Just hope I can make Wonder happy again.

[Lisa2009]

Thinking of you both.

I think you make her very happy. SHe's just grieving at the moment thats all. Just be there for her and allow her to be there for you xxxxx