THRIFTY FRIENDS (PART 3)

[wonder]

I want to thank every one for their kind thoughts. I didnt want this to be a big issue as I kept it to myself, but the support you have all shown is greatly appreciated and I thank you all for the messages you have sent. I am coping now, its hard sometimes but life goes on. I have felt like I was in a nightmare but now its real. Although I am devastated by our loss I'm starting to feel me again. I do hurt but I have 3 lovely kids who I love dearly and I feel lucky. I will miss my 2 babies that I lost so much, but I know I'm not the only one who has been through this. Thank you all for the great support and compassion you have shown. I will start posting again on here soon and thanks again, it has meant so much & pulled us through. xxx

[kallis3]

What a lovely post wonder. I'm glad you are feeling stronger and starting to come out the other side again.

Sending you a big hug )))))HUG(((((

[Skippy]

I'm glad you're feeling stronger Wonder.

That's the great thing about this forum, we're all here to support each other, and not just about debts.

Lots of love to you Wonder, take care of yourself xxx

[Julie]

Glad you feel stronger Wonder, as you know the sadness will come in waves, but we will be here for you....and you have the support of your lovely husband too.

Take care xx

[wonder]

It comes and goes. One minute I feel better the next I get pains and feel low again. Still feeling tired and sick so its not a nice reminder. I'm taking one day at a time. I do cry but do it alone. Sometimes it hits me and other times I feel like me. I try not to think too much about what if's. I dont want to forget. I want to cry for my baby and in time it wont hurt so much.

[kallis3]

Don't cry alone wonder. Let Paul help you, he shares your pain as well.

[Julie]

Don't cry alone - one thing I learnt was not to bottle it up and get on with things. I recently had counselling as I hadn't coped with the grief, even though I thought I had.

It takes time Wonder, don't rush it and remember we're all here for you and Paul.

[Shining]

LadyH my thoughts are with you too. A very good post that is given from the heart of LadyH xx

[Skippy]

Lots of love to you as well Ladyh xxx

[kallis3]

What a lovely post ladyh, I really do feel for you. My stepkids drive me up the wall sometimes, but I would be gutted if I lost either of them.

Of course you will feel the same pain. My stepkids are 30 and 33 now. I've been involved with them since they were knee high to a grasshopper!

Sending love to you ladyh. I'll email you in the morning.

[ivas4us]

thank you ladyh for your kind words and I am sorry that you have been through so much pain. We do need to grieve but I hope we can start to move on soon. We are going to have a bit of a celebration tonight for our 40th's and hopefully this will give us some comfort.

[Julie]

Thats a very honest post LadyH and so lovely for you to share such a personal loss.

I hope you can take pleasure from the good times Chris gave you.

Paul, hope you and Wonder can enjoy your birthday celebrations, you will move on, just do it at your own pace xx

[ivas4us]

I hope we have a good night, ive got £5 left out of my iva budget and I don't care if I blow the lot [:D]. No seriously we are very fortunate to be able to have a get together with family and close friends. We are looking forward to it and I have even managed to buy Wonder a lovely dress for her birthday from the sale at monsoon.

[MelanieGiles]

I am quite frankly humbled at the sincere support shown by posters on this forum - which makes it such a special place to be part of and to share in.

Such a moving post from LadyH, but so apt and true. You are definately in the wrong job, and should be in counselling! The way forum posters continue to support each other in so many ways never ceases to amaze me. I hope you all have good and peaceful weekends.

[kallis3]

You too Mel.

The friendship and support on the forum never ceases to amaze me. I have made really good friends both on and off forum and even met some of them.

Long may this forum continue.