UPDATE

[freelili]

Hi Guys

I just wanted to say that I going off scene for a while, to de-scramble my brain. I spoke to my ex-hubby last night and he has agreed to take the kids for a few days next week, he's also agreed to finance some care on a regular basis. I am to go up to my brothers for a few days break.

I wamted to thank everyone who has been supportive of me during the last four months, things have changed so much that I just cannot think straight and am on duty 24 hours with the kids. I am on my last nerve.

I am sorry for all my moaning, ranting etc. Melanie, I know you have told me what to do and I have appreciated your advice, I just need some time to think. I have tried to be supportive to others as I understand what a difficult time this is and I hope to to more in the future. I also wanted to thank admin, for their kind e-mails, and messages of thanks and support.

Good luck to everyone going through a difficult time, I really care and I hope you know that. Special best wishes to Skippy, coco, debt dummy and kerri. and many thanks.

Goodbye for now

LILY

[MelanieGiles]

Hey Lily - don't be at all apologetic. This is all about YOU finding the right solution for YOUR FUTURE and the childrens. It is right that you are seeking a number of options and taking time to make the right decision.

You are a wonderful mum, and the kids are your first priority. And you are one of the best forum posters providing very practical and important pastoral advice to our other members. I am glad that you have decided to take some time away to think - you need it with all the stress of the last couple of months.

Have a great rest, and let us know when you are back "on-line".

Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.

For further details contact me at http://melaniegiles.com and view my IVA blog at: http://melaniegiles.blogs.iva.co.uk

[Skippy]

Good for you Lily - you make sure you are pampered for a few days, you deserve it. At the end of the day (and this applies to all of us), your health is the most important thing. I know it's easier said than done, but you need time to grieve and sort yourself out.

Take care and think of yourself for a while. I may never have met you, but I worry about you!

Love Tracey xxx

Onwards and upwards!!!

[freelili]

Thank you Melsanie, it means a lot.

Skippy after reading your post to Melanie, I have left you a message in the friends corner, I think you are going through it too. Dont worry I will be fine.

leave my love with you

LILY