Hi Kate
I am moved by your situation, I can identify with the feelings of hopelessness and panic youre feeling right now. I too didnt pay my rent and council tax and threw everything at the loans and cards. Its so common (according to te money adviser I had). Amyhow, I was told that the council tax and rent would be written off in BR but I wasnt too sure as council tax is a legal debt. I would agree with the person who advised throwing everything at the rent and council tax and ignoring the cards and loans. I know they phone and scream, ninety odd times a day but if youre honest and say your only option is ~BR they really cant do anything about it.
Please remember that there is an end to this mess, I was just like you. I could barely function and was sooo ashamed and tired of trying. Living through this is hard but there is light at the end of it.
Onr more thing that springs to mind, living with epilepsy; Do you claim disability living allowance for this?? If not then you should.
You must take care of yourself, its only money, youre far more precious than what you owe (although it dosent feel that way when creditors are giving you hell, and you feel like hell).
Good luck Kate, keep going, its not as bad as it seems to be right now. Youre on the right track,(doesnt feel like it, I know).
Keep posting, none of your questions are silly, most of us have been there.
lily