Its my daughters 8th birthday today...(I have 3 girls..aged, 6, 8 and 12.)
Even befor the debt we always tried to teach them the importance of money and that it doesnt grow on trees, however we dont burden them with our problems...they are just kids and all they should worry about it what game to play next.
She gave me a wish list last week and said i dont want them all mummy, just pick a few so i get a supprise still....there was only 4 things on there in the first place.
Anyway as what she had asked for wasnt much i get them all...then she opened 2 this morning and saved 2 for tonight when daddy gets home.
She has just opened them and was delighted that she had everything she had asked for...but then said..."sorry about all the money" !!!
I feel so bad now...we have always tried not to discuss things infront of the kids but they must have overheard and picked things up.
I dont want them to feel bad whenever its there birthday or xmas...i told her not to be silly, it's her birthday and she should be spoiled on her birthday....what more could i have said...?
I am going to be extra careful from now on to make sure they dont hear us...i was brought up in a house of "thats to expensive" and "we cant afford that"...and i dont want my kids having the same memories.
Have i messed up.
Angie xx
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