You are a gracious lady Angie!!!
Scott should have included his family's debts within his IVA agreement in the first place - assuming that they existed at that time. If the debts have been run up after the IVA was accepted, then they should not form part of the IVA, but should definately not have been paid out of the house sale.
If he were to ask them for the money back and send this to the IP, I think this would be the start of making amends, but without sight of the original IVA documents it is a little difficult to advise fully.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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