David
Don't worry about being on the forum - the forum is here to help you, but it is not appropriate for me to discuss details of your specific case, or justify the advice that my firm or other companies made to other unrelated parties.
Whilst the forum is called iva.co.uk, it is not exclusive to queries about IVAs only. The experts, and the other posters, as very happy to help you with all sorts of queries, and you should carry on using it for as long as you need to. We will be here for you.
If the creditors do not accept your token payment, then you do have other options which have been discussed with you, but I am not prepared to discuss these on a public site. You can contact either Andrew or myself again, and we will be more than happy to speak to you directly. Given that this is now really starting to affect you, I would get those offer letters and payments out to creditors as soon as you can.
You may also like to look at
www.debthelpcharity, which is an excellent website and gives you the opportunity to put together your own offer to creditors on a free of charge basis.