nowt will make me feel better at the moment. when i woke up this morning i had brown hair and now its nearly white so god knows whether it will be completley white in morning after ive walked eight mile to work
I'm so sorry you're feeling so low sweet mysteries. Its perfectly understandable, given what you're going through.
Why don't you go to your doctor and maybe take a few days off work or even go to a counsellor. Just someone where you pour your heart out and be perfectly open about everything.
There's always someone on here that will listen and you can even contact us off forum if that will help you.
Whatever you do, please don't feek you're on your own, because honestly you are not. There will be a soultion to your debt and when you have found that, life won't seem such a dark place.
My wife is on a warning over her sickness record. Seems daft since the last time she was off sick was when she was suspended after false allegations were made(she is a nurse working for the NHS).
Discharged today the 8th feb 2012. View is much brighter now.
Continuing to rebuild our credit worthiness.
I am waiting to go for an attendance review at work - even though it was a one off operation and they know it is nothing to do with work, I still have to go.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
It annoys me when organisations have these stupid procedures in place. Its normally the larger ones too and they make no allowances for individuals. However, an employer who dismisses an employee who is genuinely unfit for work, will find themselves in an employment tribunal. The only exceptions are if the employee has not been employed for at least 12 months and if the employee has not adhered to procedures.
Hang in there sweet mysteries - how long have you been in your IVA and who are you with?
Have you taken any advice on your absences due to sickness? What does you contract of emplyment/employee manual say? What happened about your complaint against bullying from your boss?
Regards, David Mond, Insolvency Practitioner for over 46 years. Personal Insolvency Practitioner of the year 2012, Personal Insolvency Practitioner of the year finalist 2013 & 2014 awarded by Insolvency & Rescue Magazine and 2015 finalist for Personal Insolvency Firm of the Year.
Sweet mysteries isn't yet in an IVA David, she is still looking at her options.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
