Suppose your right Mel, forget that idea Kelse wasn't thougt through properly.
Hang in there.........an I don't mean put a noose around his neck.....or?
If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
Funds paid to date accepted as F&F 16th August 2013, the wait for completion begins.
Wait over....certificate recieved 3rd May 2014
Hello Kelse,
I just wanted to add a voice of encouragement and support, stay strong honey everything will work out, approach your solicitor for injunctions if you can as there are many organisations out there who will support and help you through these troubled times.
I myself was a child of a broken family, I was the youngest of 5 children and I just wanted to say it will get better and your children will be ok through these times, because they have you to love and re-assure them. Love and Hugs X
Remember were here for you darling xxx Take care xx
You can still report him indirectly by letting slip to a close friend (in confidence that they report him but deny any knowledge of knowing)
and at a time when you know he will be driving so when he is stopped by the police with no insurance they will confiscate the car and if he don't pay the fine and charges it will be crushed......SORTED hehehe
Keith
The long and winding road will straighten out eventually....keep the faith
I agree with Melanie, I don't think we should be encouraging Kelse to do this. As tempting as it might seem she has enough problems with this horrible excuse for a man without adding to them.
Whoever reports him, I'm sure his first suspicion will be Kelse.
Don't lower yourself to his level Kelse, let him get on with whatever he wants to as what goes around comes around etc.,
All the best and I do understand your children are suffering as a result, but they won't always be children and hopefully realise just who is the better parent in all of this..
Big hugs xx
IVA final payment left the bank on the 26th January 2013...looking forward to a debt free future.
He is nothing more than a bully, and if you stand up to him, I'm sure he will back down. They usually do.
Don't let him get to you.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
Thank you for all your words. I've been to see my solicitor (this morning) and now I'm just waiting for her and the police to speak to each other and sort out the best solution. I'm not sleeping well at all and I'm even dreaming about everything. On the plus side, I've found a child worker who is going to come and speak to the children (especially the eldest)to try and counsel them in some way.
That is a good positive move Kelse, I am sure things will start going well soon, The dreams will become less and less and as they say you should always reverse your dreams, so good things are coming your way.
I hope the child worker can help the children too, there are some wonderful support groups about that can help you honey, most of them can be reached through your children's schools and nursery's (my sister is a nursery manager) that's how I know so much about them.
So chin up babes were all here for you xxx
