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Post by Foggy » Sat Mar 26, 2011 10:48 pm
Child care equivalent of the CPS ![:(!]
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Post by kallis3 » Sat Mar 26, 2011 10:50 pm
CSA are totally useless - my stepson can give chapter and verse on them!
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Post by Julie » Sat Mar 26, 2011 10:50 pm
I was actually told as I worked and there was no benefit to the government, then there was no interest for the CSA to chase payments from my ex. so they didn't!!

As hard as it was at the time, I managed and what I never had, I didn't have to say thank you for.

I hope times have changed.
 
 

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Post by kerry1977 » Sat Mar 26, 2011 10:53 pm
i rang the csa as i didnt trust my ex to keep regular payments they take his money from his wages each month so at least i know im getting something and can budget accordingly.
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Post by kallis3 » Sun Mar 27, 2011 8:45 am
The old system was much fairer! The money is for the kids - not for you and the absent father should pay towards their upkeep.

At least you do know that you'll get something Kerry.
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Post by Shining » Sun Mar 27, 2011 9:38 am
My son pays for his twins it's taken direct from his wages, they know exactly what he's earning and therefore no arrears can accumulate and ex is guaranteed her money, however, they're not too swift on paying and she's often paid late which is totally out of his control. x
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Post by kallis3 » Sun Mar 27, 2011 10:03 am
You'd think they'd be able to get their act together now wouldn't you?
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Post by RHB » Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:26 pm
He would be better off coming out of it Lesley & setting up a direct debit for the amount. At least his ex would know what day of te mont she will get it.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:30 pm
Even though I don't rate the CSA - much better to go through the official channels.
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Post by RHB » Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:32 pm
I believe the move is to encourage private agreements & to start charging for their services.
 
 

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Post by RHB » Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:33 pm
My friend started off b using them but as te dust settled with her ex they now have a private agreement & because it is coming from his account he can prove it has been paid to her.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:41 pm
It should never have changed from the courts.
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