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Post by kallis3 » Sun Aug 28, 2011 12:36 pm
Put away as much as you can - some can fund your first months payment and you have no idea what is going to go wrong once the IVA has started.
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Post by ginger3232 » Sun Aug 28, 2011 12:45 pm
Agree with Kallis - "sods Law" states it will be the boiler/car/washing machine/the So**ing car again. :-)

So save as much as you can.
 
 

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Post by njc » Sun Aug 28, 2011 1:09 pm
Thank you, I just didn't want to be doing anything wrong - I was worried that they could come back and say we were keeping too much money back and that it should be going to the creditors.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Sun Aug 28, 2011 1:19 pm
I doubt they will.
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Post by njc » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:09 pm
Hi, sorry it has been a while, have only just got the internet back! We now have a date for the creditors meeting on the 21st. My partner keeps being pestered by one of his creditors. Does he have to talk to them?
 
 

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Post by Shining » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:11 pm
Hi njc, you partner does not have to talk his creditor at all and it will have no bearing on the outcome of the meeting on the 21st. All the best for the 21st, let us know how it goes please and do keep posting. x
IVA final payment left the bank on the 26th January 2013...looking forward to a debt free future.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:11 pm
He doesn't have to talk to them at all if he doesn't want to.

Good luck for next week, I am sure it will all be fine.
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Post by njc » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:13 pm
Thank you, I am so nervous! It really helps to be able to talk on here. I have to work that day and will be uncontactable for part of it. Can my partner make any decisions without me when they call?
 
 

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Post by Shining » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:15 pm
Are you both entering an IVA? it may be possible for your partner to take a message and relay it to you should there be anything to discuss. Would you be available via email, maybe they can mail you?
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Post by njc » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:17 pm
I can pick up messages during the day at some point. We are entering a joint IVA so I hope that means he can make a decision on my behalf if I can't get in touch straight away.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:22 pm
Your husband can make the decisions or, if he is really not sure, he can defer it until you get home.

I'm sure it won;t come to that.
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Post by Foggy » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:24 pm
We have joint (actually interlocking) IVA's and I accepted the call and agreed tha amendments on behalf of both of us ... no-one questioned it.
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Post by Rosepetal » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:26 pm
hi,you're doing really well& coping with a lot of stress,things will feel so much better once you get accepted - have faith in your IP,they sound confident they'll get you sorted.

my hubby held most of our debts (in secret), i was so scared but he took some holding together. you'll be ok,almost there now.

your IP could arrange a call with you later in the day if you explain. who are you going with? no you don't need to talk to any creditors,they will all be fully aware of what's going on now,don't let them bully you two. i just didn't answer the phone,it was stressful but i just left it to ring.
tell your other half about the posts,it might help him.
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Post by Rosepetal » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:27 pm
to 2nd foggy's point, my hubby took our call& we had interlocking IVS's too.
Nothing stays the same...everything changes..hang on in there!
 
 

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Post by njc » Tue Sep 13, 2011 10:02 pm
Thank you, I will show him your messages to reassure him. Will let you all know how it goes. I am really grateful for all your support and advice.
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