font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica">quote:<hr height="1" noshade>Originally posted by kallis3
Csa have always been a waste of time. It was much better when maintainance was sorted out by the courts.
Better sill is to work it out beween you.
Have never needed any one to till me how much to pay towards my sons, 12 years after the spit sill pay towards them getting to collage.
took them on hoilday each year,
days out on my one weekend off a month,
picked them up two days a week after shcool 20 mile rould trip.
ex only had to say the boys need and they got.
But then it was a two way thing, as she would never take any thing for her self.
I will never under stand how Dads can walk away from there kids.
IVA now over with and it was worth it.
now starting my life again,