Hi,
Just to share the wonderful news that this morning I received my Certificate of Due Completion confirming that I have successfully completed my IVA after 60 months. Wow - it feels so liberating to be free![:)]
So, how easy was the five year run? In short, not easy as life dealt its numerous blows...however, I must say a BIG thanks to Mel Giles and her team...who administered the process very professionally with close attention to client support i.e. being flexible, informative and understanding. Thank you Mel! [8D]
In short, to summarise my journey:
--2007: Enter IVA with partner with a joint debt of £116k and proposal of 48p/£
--2008: Car up in flames on motorway and we also decide to end our 13 year relationship (not at the same time though as that would just be wrong![:0]). I move out of the family home. Variation in IVA to 44p/£
--2009: We sell family property early to release equity into IVA due to change in mortgage market. Both me and the ex now swimming in the rental market - not good![:(]. My ex and I, after a period of understandable animosity, agree to put our differences aside and work hard together to make sure we both get through this amicably and with the children at the heart of our decisions and interaction.
--2010-12: Keep head down, work hard and ensure that commitments to IVA continue to be met.
So what have I learned from all of this? I guess the following:-
--Budget, budget, budget
--It's buyer beware in this world...so ALWAYS do your research (whether it's for a debt solution, tv, car, loan agreement or rental agreement).
--Ignorance and apathy can and will cost you dearly
--Never let anyone (be it a partner, peer or sales person) to pressure you to sign on the dotted line. Always read the contract and understand the benefit to YOU and not the other parties. If in doubt, don't sign! Ignore the small print at your peril
--Think long term rather than short term...favour compulsive saving over compulsive spending (the banking sector could learn from this)
--Martin Lewis should go for the Prime Minister's job!
--I've found my Ordinary World...[8D]
The above are just what springs to mind and sorry if I sound as if I'm preaching.[8)]
I will say that at the beginning of my journey, advice and discussions with Mel Giles, Andy Davie and members of the IVA forums were invaluable and empowering so thank you very much!
Good luck to all of those currently in IVAs and happy to share my experiences.
Best wishes,
Jon
OW
- 'I wont cry for yesterday 'cause there's an ordinary world somehow I have to find...'