Thanks Melanie, I can never explain what we are going through, from anxiety, to constant worry! - We got in debt and made some silly errors many years ago so we were advised that we should do an IVA, we was in this for over 18 months and we found that we had some equity in our home so we was going to sell and pay up and get a new mortgage (smaller house) the IVA Prat said that we shoudl remortgage rather than sell, we sourced a brooker from the internet and then we had a surveyor and he valued our house at 315k (wow) so we released as much as we could to the IVA (over 70K) and then we took a new mortgage out on interest only paying £1300 per month, we knew this was high, but knew we could afford this then the bang hit of interest going up and the media saying of the repossession etc.. This was so awful we put the house on the market for the mortgage 292, and we never got any interest in this, so we spoke with the morthage compnay who originally advised that we would have to miss payments before they got involved, so now we was scared and I wote a letter to the CEO and they became very helpful, they put us a new system called the partnership programme and thsi means they sell our house and take control, sort of like a voluntrary repo, but not recorded as this, we agreed and we left, the house was sold for 120k less than the mortgage and we are now renting, without a home and nothing to show for our life! - The mortgage company have been brilliant and they say that we cna pay back 70k within 3 years they will close it, realistically we can not do this, I have to write with a proposal, ut it will take us for rest of our life to pay back and no other mortgage company will touch us, so I have to make choices, do I go BR, NO If I have to do this it will hurt a lot of people, and I will lose my job, so what do I do? I could take the brookers to court, but as advised they are big and powerful and will win the mortgage company have made comments that they make take the surveyor to court, but this will take years, I am left with debt (again) and no assets, my wife and I are so stressed, its amazing how we are sticking together, but thats a diferent story, I really feel angry about this and again someone has made lots of money on me, and I have nothing. I do not want this to be a sob story, and I know that we made some mistakes, but we have lost it all and all we wanted was to make it right, So if anyone can advise me on where to go I really really would appreciate it. Thanks for your support x